Will you be able to laugh and cry the same way as friends do? Well, you might want to say “yes” to all these questions.
Say whatever you wish, but one thing is sure – you cannot look upon your friends as just friends, after dating.
This is as true as the fact that the sun rises in the east. In fact, your friendship gets morphed into something alien. It is like this – once you are born and you do not like the world, you cannot go back to your mother’s womb! The same becomes of friendship after dating – once friendship spawns into love, it cannot go back. Well, when your heart breaks, wisdom is the last thing that comes to your mind! However, you need to find your wisdom quickly, if you want to avoid being jeered at by your own guilt that you lost a beautiful friendship with your friend after dating.
If love does not work, then the friendship has to die! It will be wise to bring an end to the friendship with mutual respect towards each other’s feelings. Somebody once made a flying remark that made me sit up and take notice.
Once you have dated your best friend and it did not work, you have lost her friendship forever. They just cannot come to their “friendship” self again with their lover.
Let’s keep it straight guys – don’t waste time in wooing your friend to be ‘just friends’ once again, after you have spent hours together at the beach, trying to explore each other romantically. About 60 percent of the people leave friendship aside after dating.
What I've noticed, though, is that every person I've heard espouse this worldview was straight.
Five years down the road, if you're still single and interested in her leftovers, then perhaps you both can consider it. You've been compared to your best friend your whole life, do you really want to add your role in bed to that list? I'm just curious what makes you think that they will treat you any differently?
If he cheated on her, he'll cheat on you, regardless of how perfect you think you'll be for him.4. Just because your best friend wants the best for you doesn't mean she wants you to date her ex-boyfriend.
You’re into it, he’s into it, there’s some serious chemistry, and you might have stumbled upon something really special. In discussing this topic with my female friends, it seems to me that men are especially experienced in dealing with this dilemma.
Now, you’re faced with a most unenviable predicament: Walk away from someone who could end up being the love of your life, or put one of your friendships in jeopardy.